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Reclaim Your Life:
12 Weeks to
Rediscover Who You Are

For women who've lost themselves in being everything to everyone

You looked up one day and realised you don't know who you are anymore beyond what everyone else needs from you.

You're bloody exhausted from being the solution to everyone's problems. You say yes when you mean no. You have zero time that's actually yours. You can't remember the last time you did something just because you wanted to.

You're done rolling through life doing whatever needs doing without ever stopping to ask: What do I actually want?

This 12-week programme is for women who are ready to stop being everything to everyone and start reclaiming their lives.

Not through Instagram affirmations or motivational nonsense.

Through honest assessment, practical tools, and doing the uncomfortable work of building a life that actually feels like yours.

You're the Right Fit If:

✓ You've looked up from life and realised you don't know who you are anymore
✓ You're rolling through doing whatever needs doing without thinking about what YOU want
✓ You're ready to feel uncomfortable while making changes
✓ You want practical tools, not therapy sessions about your childhood
✓ You're willing to honestly assess your life (sleep, alcohol, time, energy, all of it)

✓ You want a sense of control over your destiny
✓ You know there's more to life than this

You're NOT the Right Fit If:

✗ You want someone to tell you you're perfect as you are
✗ You're looking for quick fixes without doing the work
✗ You want to spend weeks processing why you're like this
✗ You're not willing to change habits (sleep, boundaries, self-talk)
✗ You think setting boundaries makes you a terrible person
✗ You want a programme you can passively consume without implementing
✗ You're not ready to feel guilty, scared, or uncomfortable during change

What You'll Actually Do Over 12 Weeks:

PHASE 1: HONOUR & EVALUATE (Weeks 1-3)

Acknowledge the journey, assess where you are now

Week 1: Your journey matters (but we're not dwelling on it) - The essential coaching questions
Week 2: The Wheel of Life - Honest assessment across 8 areas
Week 3: Where your time and energy actually go - The lack of boundaries is the problem

PHASE 2: IDENTIFY (Weeks 4-5)

Where you want to be and what has to change

Week 4: What do you actually want? (Not what you think you should want)
Week 5: What has to change - And what scares you about it

PHASE 3: BUILD (Weeks 6-12)

Creating the foundations that make everything else possible

Week 6: Sleep - The foundation nobody wants to hear about
Week 7: Alcohol, substances, and honest conversations
Week 8: Movement - Find what your body actually likes
Week 9: Food - Eating like an adult (not a diet)
Week 10: Time, energy, and boundaries that actually work
Week 11: Self-Talk - Changing your internal language from "I can't" to "I can"
Week 12: Building sustainable change - The maintenance plan

The Core Framework:

Throughout every week, you'll work with the thinking→feeling→doing link:

Your thoughts create your feelings. Your feelings drive your actions. Your actions create your results.

Change starts with changing how you think. Everything else follows.

TWO WAYS TO WORK WITH ME

Choose Your Path:

SELF-STUDY

£297

 

All the materials, work at your own pace

✓ All 12 comprehensive weekly guides (85,000+ words)
✓ Essential Scripts for boundaries
✓ Slip-Up Recovery Plan
✓ Lifetime access to all materials
✓ Work on your own schedule

 

Perfect for:
Self-motivated women who prefer working independently

 

You DON'T get:
Group calls, community access, or direct support from Alex

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ENROL IN SELF-STUDY 

1-2-1

£1,797

 

or 3 monthly payments

 

Completely personalised transformation

✓ Everything in Self-Study, PLUS:
✓ 12 private 1-2-1 sessions with Alex
✓ Email support between sessions
✓ Fully customised to your situation

Perfect for:
Women who want dedicated personal attention

 

Limited availability

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BOOK DISCOVERY CALL 

The DIY Path: Self-Study £297

For women who are self-motivated and prefer working independently.

What You Get:

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12 Comprehensive Weekly Guides (85,000+ words total)

 

Each week includes:

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  • The Psychology: Why this matters, why it's hard, the thinking→feeling→doing link

  • The Practice: How to actually implement with step-by-step exercises

  • Extended Examples: Real scenarios from women who've transformed (Sarah, Emma, Kate)

  • Troubleshooting: 8-10 common challenges with practical solutions

  • Transformation Markers: What success looks like each week

  • Key Takeaways: Essential points to remember

 

12 Weekly Action Worksheets

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  • Practical exercises (not busywork)

  • Tracking tools for sleep, time, energy, food, movement

  • Assessment tools (wheel of life, skills audit, boundary audit)

  • Self-talk challenge prompts

  • Implementation guides for each week

 

BONUS: Essential Scripts Guide

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  • What to say when setting boundaries

  • Dealing with pushback (guilters, negotiators, emergency manufacturers)

  • Work, family, and friendship boundary language

  • Quick reference phrases for every situation

 

BONUS: Slip-Up Recovery Plan

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  • What to do when you fall back into old patterns

  • 7-step recovery process

  • Common slip-up scenarios with specific recovery plans

  • Preventing future slip-ups

 

Lifetime Access

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  • Download all materials immediately

  • Revisit anytime you need

  • Yours forever

 

How It Works:

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  1. Purchase and get immediate access to all materials

  2. Work through at your own pace (suggested: one week per module)

  3. Complete exercises and tracking as you go

  4. Implement the tools in your actual life

  5. Reference materials whenever you need

 

This Is Perfect For You If:

 

✓ You're self-motivated and don't need external accountability
✓ You prefer working independently
✓ You want to work at your own pace without weekly deadlines
✓ You're in a different time zone or have schedule that doesn't allow for calls
✓ You're on a tighter budget

 

This Is NOT Right For You If:

 

✗ You need accountability to follow through
✗ You want someone to troubleshoot your specific situations
✗ You want direct access to Alex
✗ You need external motivation to implement

 

Investment:

 

£297 one-time payment - Full access immediately

 

What You're NOT Getting:


No Q&A or troubleshooting with Alex
No accountability check-ins

 

This is pure DIY. You do the work. You see the results.

Frequently Asked Questions: Self-Study

 

Can I upgrade to 1-2-1 later?
Yes, you can credit your £297 toward the £1797 1-2-1 price (you'd pay £1500 to upgrade).

 

How long do I have access?
Lifetime. Download everything and it's yours forever.

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What format are the materials?
Downloadable guides in PDF/document format. Read on any device.

 

Can I ask questions if I get stuck?
Not in self-study - that's what 1-2-1 includes. Self-study is materials only. You can always book a one off coaching session if you feel you need additional support.

The Premium Path: 1-2-1 £1,797

For women who want completely personalised transformation.

What You Get:

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12 Private 1-2-1 Sessions with Alex

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  • Weekly 60-minute private sessions

  • Completely customised to your situation

  • Deep dive into your specific challenges

  • Personalised troubleshooting

  • Accountability

  • Flexible scheduling 

 

Email Support Between Sessions

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  • Quick questions between sessions

  • Support when you're stuck

  • Accountability check-ins

  • Not left hanging between calls

 

Fully Customised Approach

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  • Programme tailored to your life circumstances

  • Skip what doesn't apply, dive deeper into what does

  • Pace adjusted to your needs

  • Exercises customised to your situation

 

Priority Support

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  • Direct access to Alex

  • Faster response times

  • Personal attention throughout

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How It Works:

 

Before Starting:

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  • Discovery call to ensure right fit

  • Customise programme to your needs

  • Schedule first session

 

During 12 Weeks:

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  • Weekly private session (flexible day/time)

  • Review previous week's implementation

  • Work through current week's content

  • Troubleshoot specific challenges

  • Create action plan for coming week

  • Email support between sessions

 

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This Is Perfect For You If:

 

✓ You want dedicated personal attention
✓ You have specific/unique circumstances that need customisation
✓ You want faster progress with intensive support
✓ You value direct access to Alex
✓ You're ready to invest in premium support

 

This Is NOT Right For You If:

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✗ Budget is tight (self-study would be better)
✗ You're not ready for intensive personal work

 

Investment:

 

£1,797 - Full payment (save 5%)

 

OR

 

£627 x 3 months = £1,881 total

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Limited Availability:

 

I take limited 1-2-1 clients to ensure quality of attention. If you're interested, book a discovery call to discuss whether this is right for you.

 

What Makes This Different:

 

This isn't standard coaching where you show up and talk about your feelings for an hour.

This is structured transformation with:

  • Clear weekly focus areas

  • Specific exercises customised to you

  • Accountability for implementation

  • Troubleshooting your actual life situations

  • Tools you'll use long after programme ends

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Frequently Asked Questions: 1-2-1

 

How quickly can I start?
As soon as we complete discovery call and you're enrolled. Usually within a week.

 

What if I need to reschedule a session?
24-hour notice required. We'll reschedule within same week when possible.

 

What time zones do you work with?
Based in London but work with international clients. We'll find times that work.

 

Is this therapy?
No. This is coaching focused on practical tools and forward movement, not processing past trauma.

 

Can I spread it over more than 12 weeks?
Ideally 12 consecutive weeks for momentum. We can discuss if circumstances require flexibility.

 

What's included in email support?
Quick questions between sessions. Not full coaching via email, but support when stuck.

 

How do I know if this is right for me?
Book a discovery call. We'll discuss your situation and whether 1-2-1 is the best fit.

SELF-STUDY

£297

 

All 12 weekly guides

Essential Scripts Guide

Slip-Up Recovery Plan

Lifetime access to materials

Weekly action worksheets

Private 1-2-1 sessions

Email support

Customised to your situation

Start anytime

Work at own pace

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ENROL IN SELF-STUDY 

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1-2-1

£1,797

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All 12 weekly guides

Essential Scripts Guide

Slip-Up Recovery Plan

Lifetime access to materials

Weekly action worksheets

Private 1-2-1 sessions

Email support

Customised to your situation

Start anytime

Work at own pace

Limited availability

​BOOK DISCOVERY CALL 

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Can I Upgrade Later?

Self-Study → 1-2-1:
Yes. Credit £297 toward 1-2-1 price if availability (pay £1,500 difference).

GENERAL FAQs

About The Programme:

How long does it take?
12 weeks at approximately 3-5 hours per week (reading, exercises, implementation). Some weeks more, some less.

 

Is this therapy?
No. This is coaching focused on practical tools and forward action, not processing childhood trauma.

 

Will this fix my marriage/job/life?
This gives you tools to build a life that feels like yours. What you do with those tools determines your results.

 

Do I need to be in crisis to benefit?
No. This is for women who feel lost, exhausted, or like they've forgotten who they are. You don't need to be at rock bottom.

 

What if I'm too busy?
If you're too busy to spend 3-5 hours weekly on yourself, that's exactly why you need this. The programme teaches you to create time.

 

What if I fall behind?
Self-study: Work at your own pace. 1-2-1: We adjust timing as needed.

 

About Results:

 

What will I get out of this?
After 12 weeks you'll have: clearer understanding of what you want, tools for managing time and energy, boundaries that actually work, better relationship with sleep/food/movement, changed self-talk patterns, and a maintenance plan for ongoing success.

 

Will I be perfect after 12 weeks?
No. You'll be better. You'll have tools. You'll have practiced using them. Perfection isn't the goal - sustainable progress is.

 

What if it doesn't work for me?
This works if you implement it. If you just read and don't do the exercises, you won't see results. This requires actual work.

 

How quickly will I see changes?
Some things (sleep, energy) improve in 2-3 weeks. Other things (boundaries, self-talk) take longer. This is a practice, not a magic fix.

Technical Questions:

How are materials delivered?
Self-study: Immediate download access. Group: Access via Circle. 1-2-1: Provided as we work through programme.

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Can I print the materials?
Yes. All materials are downloadable PDFs.

 

Do I need special software?
No. Just ability to read PDFs and for 1-2-1, access to WhatsApp/FaceTime/Zoom for calls.

SELF-STUDY

£297

All the materials, work at your own pace

Perfect for: Self-motivated women who prefer working independently

​

ENROL IN SELF-STUDY 

1-2-1

£1,797

​Completely personalised transformation
Limited availability

Perfect for: Women who want dedicated personal attention

Limited availability

​BOOK DISCOVERY CALL 

Still Not Sure Which Option Is Right?

Tell me:

  • Where you're at right now

  • What you're struggling with most

  • What kind of support you think you need

I'll tell you honestly which option would serve you best. No pressure, no sales BS. Just honest guidance.

One More Thing:

You've been putting everyone else first for years.

You've been rolling through life doing whatever needs doing without asking what YOU want.

You've been saying yes when you mean no, exhausting yourself to be everything to everyone.

 

This is your permission to stop.

To look up from the madness.

To reclaim your life.

 

Choose your path. Start now.

You've got this.

— Alex

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